{"id":47334,"date":"2023-12-28T13:34:09","date_gmt":"2023-12-28T10:34:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/findmykids.org\/blog\/?p=47334"},"modified":"2026-03-26T15:52:25","modified_gmt":"2026-03-26T12:52:25","slug":"body-count-meaning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/findmykids.org\/blog\/en\/body-count-meaning","title":{"rendered":"What Does Body Count Mean? Decoding the Term"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cBody count\u201d is one of the many slang terms used online and among younger generations. But what does it mean? Read on to discover the exact body count meaning and definition.<\/p>\n<h2>Contents:<\/h2>\n<ul class=\"contents\">\n<li><a href=\"#1\">What Does Body Count Mean?<\/a>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"#2\">Meaning<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#3\">Origin<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#4\">How Is It Used?<\/a>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"#5\">In Social Media<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#6\">In Dating<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#7\">How to Talk with Your Kid about Slang<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#8\">FAQ<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 id=\"1\">What Does Body Count Mean?<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_4477\" style=\"width: 760px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4477\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-4477\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/teens.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"750\" height=\"421\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/teens.jpg 891w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/teens-150x84.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/teens-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/teens-768x431.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/teens-808x453.jpg 808w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/teens-392x220.jpg 392w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4477\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Prostock-studio\/Shutterstock.com<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Let\u2019s kick off with a definition. If you\u2019ve been wondering what \u201cbody count\u201d refers to or where the phrase began, here\u2019s all you need to know.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"2\">Meaning<\/h3>\n<p>Body count can have several meanings. The most traditional meaning refers to the number of enemies killed by a soldier. For example, a trained United States Marine sniper could have a body count of 50 or more, which means that they had over 50 confirmed enemy kills.<\/p>\n<p>However, in modern slang, \u201cbody count\u201d has taken on a very different meaning. Online and among certain people, especially young people, it\u2019s used to refer to the number of people someone has slept with (had sexual intercourse with).<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"3\">Origin<\/h3>\n<p>The original military meaning of &#8220;body count&#8221; goes back to the 1960s, when soldiers used it during the Vietnam War. However, the modern sexual definition of this phrase is more recent, first being used in the 2010s. We can\u2019t be sure exactly where it began, but it quickly spread online on forums and sites like 4chan and Reddit.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"4\">How Is It Used?<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_47283\" style=\"width: 760px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-47283\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-47283\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2023\/12\/african-american-woman-sending-text-message.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2023\/12\/african-american-woman-sending-text-message.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2023\/12\/african-american-woman-sending-text-message-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2023\/12\/african-american-woman-sending-text-message-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2023\/12\/african-american-woman-sending-text-message-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2023\/12\/african-american-woman-sending-text-message-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2023\/12\/african-american-woman-sending-text-message-808x539.jpg 808w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2023\/12\/african-american-woman-sending-text-message-392x261.jpg 392w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-47283\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Samuel Borges Photography\/Shutterstock.com<\/p><\/div>\n<p>So, how is the phrase \u201cbody count\u201d used? Typically, it tends to be used online on social media sites and in dating circles. Here are some examples.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"5\">In Social Media<\/h3>\n<p>Online, on social media platforms like Facebook, TikTok, or Instagram, people might use \u201cbody count\u201d either in positive or negative ways. Often, males might boast about their body count, while denigrating women they believe to have a high body count.<\/p>\n<p>Examples can include:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cAdded three more names to my body count this month.\u201d <\/em>\u2014 Someone boasting about sleeping with three new people.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI won\u2019t date any woman with a body count over two.\u201d <\/em>\u2014 Someone claiming that they choose prospective partners based on their body count, while also denigrating women.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"6\">In Dating<\/h3>\n<p>In dating circles, too, people might ask one another about their body count using questions like \u201c<em>What\u2019s your body count?<\/em>\u201d to determine how many people their date has slept with up to that point. They may then use that information to judge or even criticize them.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"7\">How to Talk with Your Kid about Slang<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_42659\" style=\"width: 760px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/kids360.onelink.me\/ykI8?pid=content_team&amp;c=en&amp;af_channel=blog&amp;af_adset=article&amp;af_ad=body-count-meaning&amp;af_sub1=banner\"\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-42659\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-42659\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2023\/02\/Kids360-appstore.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"750\" height=\"383\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-42659\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Kids360 app<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Parents need to be able to talk with their children about slang phrases that could be harmful, like \u201cbody count.\u201d There are several ways to do this:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ask questions like &#8220;What are some of the new words your friends are using these days?&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Discuss some of the slang terms from when you were young and then begin a discussion of modern slang.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You can also use parent-friendly apps, like <a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/kids360.onelink.me\/ykI8?pid=content_team&amp;c=en&amp;af_channel=blog&amp;af_adset=article&amp;af_ad=body-count-meaning&amp;af_sub1=cta\"\">Kids360<\/a>, to prevent your kids from getting involved with sites and apps where they might be exposed to mature or unhealthy terms, like \u201cbody count.\u201d <a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/kids360.onelink.me\/ykI8?pid=content_team&amp;c=en&amp;af_channel=blog&amp;af_adset=article&amp;af_ad=body-count-meaning&amp;af_sub1=cta2\"\">Kids360<\/a> gives you the power to control how much screen time your kids have and which apps they can access.<\/p>\n<h2>Summing Up: Understanding Body Count<\/h2>\n<p>There you have it. Now you know exactly what \u201cbody count\u201d means. So, if you happen to hear your kids or their friends using it, you won\u2019t feel confused or left out. Just remember to speak with your children if you hear them using a term like that and make sure they understand how it may be used cruelly to judge or hurt others.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"8\">FAQ<\/h2>\n<h3>What does someone&#8217;s body count mean?<\/h3>\n<p>\u201cBody count\u201d refers to how many people someone has slept with.<\/p>\n<h3>What is a good body count for a woman?<\/h3>\n<p>There\u2019s no such thing as a \u201cgood body count\u201d for anybody, as everyone has different attitudes to sex. 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