{"id":5015,"date":"2023-04-11T13:23:32","date_gmt":"2023-04-11T10:23:32","guid":{"rendered":"\/blog\/?p=5015"},"modified":"2026-03-26T17:14:39","modified_gmt":"2026-03-26T14:14:39","slug":"parenting-styles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/findmykids.org\/blog\/en\/parenting-styles","title":{"rendered":"What Are the 4 Types of Parenting Styles and Which One is Right for You?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No one approach to parenting suits everyone. That\u2019s why there\u2019s a huge range of different parenting styles that we adopt when bringing up our children.<\/p>\n<p>We have described the parenting strategies of renowned child psychologists such as Diana Baumrind and John Bowlby, reviewed research on child behavior published by the National Library of Medicine and Virginia Commonwealth University, and provided our own examples to help parents identify the four types of parenting styles and find out which one will work best for them, as well as how to improve their current parenting style to be more effective regardless of the type.<\/p>\n<h2>Contents:<\/h2>\n<ul class=\"contents\">\n<li><a href=\"#WhatIsAParentingStyle\">What Is A Parenting Style?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#BaumrindParentingStyles\">4 Types of Baumrind&#8217;s Parenting Styles<\/a>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"#Authoritative\">Authoritative<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#Authoritarian\">Authoritarian<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#Permissive\">Permissive<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#Neglectful\">Neglectful<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#HowEachStyle\">How Does Each Style Affect Children?<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#AttachmentTheory\">Attachment Theory<\/a>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"#AttachmentTheoryInAdolescence\">Attachment Theory In Adolescence<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#OtherParentingStyles\">Other Parenting Styles<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#WhichParentingStyle\">What is the Best Parenting Style?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#ParentingStyles\">How to Make Every Parenting Style Even More Effective?<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 id=\"WhatIsAParentingStyle\">What Is A Parenting Style?<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_4808\" style=\"width: 760px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4808\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4808\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/father-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/father-1.png 862w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/father-1-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/father-1-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/father-1-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/father-1-808x539.png 808w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/father-1-392x261.png 392w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4808\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Prostock-studio\/Shutterstock.com<\/p><\/div>\n<p>A parenting style is a way of bringing up your child with a specific approach. The parenting style you adopt may differ based on your personality and preferences, or maybe it could depend on your child.<\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight_PastelGreen\">There are four types of parenting styles, most of which have been outlined by legendary psychologist Diana Baumrind.<\/p>\n<p>The three types outlined by Baumrind include the &#8216;Authoritarian&#8217; style, the &#8216;Authoritative&#8217; style, and the &#8216;Permissive&#8217; style.<\/p>\n<p>After further research was carried out on this topic, a fourth style was added to this list by psychologists John Martin and Eleanor Maccoby. This style was known as &#8216;Uninvolved&#8217; or &#8216;Neglectful&#8217; parenting.<\/p>\n<p>Research has shown that these four parenting styles may have a huge effect on a child\u2019s educational success and career path.<\/p>\n<p>a <a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4927255\/\"\" rel=\"nofollow\">study<\/a> conducted at Shiraz University of Medical Sciences found a negative correlation between the authoritarian parenting style and a child\u2019s educational success. Results also showed us that there was a significant positive correlation between a &#8216;Firm&#8217; style and the child\u2019s career path.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"BaumrindParentingStyles\">4 Types of Baumrind&#8217;s Parenting Styles<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_5029\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5029\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5029\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/animation-1024x1024.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/animation-1024x1024.gif 1024w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/animation-150x150.gif 150w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/animation-300x300.gif 300w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/animation-768x768.gif 768w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/animation-808x808.gif 808w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/animation-392x392.gif 392w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/animation-1232x1232.gif 1232w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-5029\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Types of parenting styles<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The styles of parenting that Baumrind outlined vary depending on the 2 main factors\u2014&#8217;Responsiveness&#8217;\u00bb and &#8216;Demandingness&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>The difference in styles was decided based on whether a parent was a highly responsive or low-responsive parent, and whether they were a highly demanding or low-demanding parent.<\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight_PastelGreen\">Understanding your personal parenting style is the first step to becoming an effective parent. There are several recognized types of parenting styles that have been studied extensively in the field of child development. These distinct parenting styles can significantly shape a child&#8217;s upbringing and future outlook.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"Authoritative\">Authoritative<\/h3>\n<p>Described in 3 words:<strong> Supportive, Firm, Fair.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The authoritative parenting style is coined by its high responsiveness and high demandingness.<\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight_PastelGreen\">This style of parenting involves the parent offering an abundance of support to their child. This involves the parents helping their child to progress and become the best version of themselves, guiding them to become successful.<\/p>\n<p>The authoritative style also implements high standards for behavior and attitude\u2014this style demands the child to respect their parents. There are set rules involved that your child should follow, however, the rules are always fully explained so your child can acknowledge the meaning behind them.<\/p>\n<p>When following this style of parenting, you\u2019re ensuring that you\u2019re consistently building a <a href=\"https:\/\/findmykids.org\/blog\/en\/what-is-positive-parenting\">positive parent-child relationship<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Out of the 3 parenting styles founded by Baumrind, this was her favorite. The authoritative style brings together strict rules, emotional support, and guidance to help your child grow into the best version of themselves.<\/p>\n<p><em>about 46% of American parents use an\u00a0<a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1177\/0165025409345073\"\" rel=\"nofollow\">authoritative parenting style<\/a>. An example of authoritative parenting is when parents calmly explain why it\u2019s essential to clean the room and check how their children feel about it. In addition, they might offer incentives or rewards for completing the task.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"Authoritarian\">Authoritarian<\/h3>\n<div id=\"attachment_5020\" style=\"width: 765px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5020\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5020\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/little-girl.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"755\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/little-girl.jpg 755w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/little-girl-150x99.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/little-girl-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/little-girl-392x260.jpg 392w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 755px) 100vw, 755px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-5020\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Prostock-studio\/Shutterstock.com<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Described in 3 words: <strong>Strict, Disengaged, Demanding. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The authoritarian style of parenting differs from the authoritative approach.<\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight_PastelGreen\">This parenting style is based on a clear set of strict rules\u2014which are often enforced with consequential punishments if they\u2019re not obeyed.<\/p>\n<p>The authoritarian parenting style, marked by strict rules and high expectations, aims to instill discipline. Whilst parents who adopt this approach demand a lot from their child, they\u2019re also very low in terms of responsiveness\u2014they can often be disengaged from their child\u2019s life, offering little to no guidance or support, unlike the authoritative style.<\/p>\n<p>An authoritarian parent also disregards their child\u2019s feelings or opinions on any given topic\u2014another sign of little to no emotional support for their child, which can harm their self-esteem.<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Example: A parent might take away the child&#8217;s phone or restrict their access to TV or video games for mild infractions like getting a B on a test instead of an A.\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"Permissive\">Permissive<\/h3>\n<div id=\"attachment_5021\" style=\"width: 760px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5021\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5021\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/mom-kissing-her-child.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/mom-kissing-her-child.jpg 750w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/mom-kissing-her-child-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/mom-kissing-her-child-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/mom-kissing-her-child-392x261.jpg 392w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-5021\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Prostock-studio\/Shutterstock.com<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Described in 3 words: <strong>Laidback, Forgiving, Tolerant. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As a permissive parent, you may outline rules, but you fail to enforce them.<\/p>\n<p>Your attitude toward parenting is very laid back\u2014you feel that your kids will ultimately find their path in life and learn from their own mistakes.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, this doesn\u2019t mean permissive parents tend not to support their children. If there\u2019s ever a serious issue, the parent will always step in to offer guidance and support.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight_PastelGreen\">This parenting style is more friend-like than parent-like. Although you\u2019ll listen to your child\u2019s issues, wants, and needs, you prefer to take a backstep and allow them to figure things out for themselves.<\/p>\n<p>While permissive parenting may foster independence, it can sometimes lead to challenges in setting limits. If a child misbehaves or disobeys the rules set by their permissive parents, they will likely have little to no consequence which could reinforce bad behavior.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That said, there are some <\/span><a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/open.maricopa.edu\/culturepsychology\/chapter\/parenting-styles\/\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">positive aspects<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> associated with permissive parenting. It can lead to children having higher self-esteem, lower rates of depression, and better social skills.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><em>Example: A permissive parent might allow their child to set their bedtime or choose what they want to eat for dinner.<\/em> <\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"Neglectful\">Neglectful<\/h3>\n<div id=\"attachment_4471\" style=\"width: 752px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4471\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4471\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/depression.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"742\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/depression.jpg 742w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/depression-150x101.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/depression-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/depression-392x264.jpg 392w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 742px) 100vw, 742px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4471\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Prostock-studio\/Shutterstock.com<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Described in 3 words: <strong>Disengaged, Distant, Uninvolved.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This style of parenting was discovered by psychologists John Martin and Eleanor Maccoby.<\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight_PastelGreen\">Neglectful parenting is the most undesirable style of parenting to choose from. Neglectful parents often leave their kids to their own devices, whilst offering no support or guidance that would otherwise help them to grow into the best version of themselves.<\/p>\n<p>There are no clear set rules for the child to follow, meaning they\u2019re likely to misbehave more frequently.<\/p>\n<p>This parenting style isn&#8217;t always intentional\u2014the parent could be struggling with many other issues which inadvertently means the child becomes a secondary priority.<\/p>\n<p>The child\u2019s wants, needs, opinions, and emotions will often go completely unnoticed, leaving them feeling unwanted and unfulfilled.<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Example: An example of a neglectful parent would be someone who is often absent, fails to provide basic needs such as food, clothing, and shelter, or has no interest in their child&#8217;s academic performance or social life.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<table border=\"1\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td colspan=\"2\" rowspan=\"2\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center; font-size: 18px;\"><strong>4 Types of Parents<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<td colspan=\"2\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center; font-size: 18px;\"><b>Control<\/b><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><strong>Low<\/strong><\/td>\n<td><strong>High<\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td rowspan=\"2\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center; font-size: 18px;\"><b>Warmth and<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center; font-size: 18px;\"><b>Support<\/b><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<td><strong>Low<\/strong><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Neglectful\u00a0\/ Uninvolved Parents<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8216;Whatever, I don\u2019t care!&#8217;<\/span><\/i><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Authoritarian Parents<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8216;Because I say so!&#8217;<\/span><\/i><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><strong>High<\/strong><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Indulgent \/ Permissive Parents<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8216;Sure, honey, whatever you say!&#8217;<\/span><\/i><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Authoritative Parents<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8216;Let\u2019s figure it out together&#8217;<\/span><\/i><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<p>Some parents lean towards being permissive parents, allowing their children a great deal of freedom and autonomy. In contrast, the authoritative parenting style emphasizes a balanced approach, combining warmth and clear boundaries. While permissive parenting may foster independence, it can sometimes lead to challenges in setting limits.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s essential to explore the characteristics and effects of these different parenting styles to find the best fit for your family. The authoritarian parenting style, marked by strict rules and high expectations, aims to instill discipline. In contrast, the authoritative parenting style encourages open dialogue and mutual respect between parents and children.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"HowEachStyle\">How Does Each Style Affect Children?<\/h3>\n<p><div class=\"post_header_video\"><iframe src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/WGG62ADci10\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen> width=\"750\" height=\"500\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><\/iframe><\/div><\/p>\n<p>Each of the perceived parenting styles can affect children in different ways:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Authoritative<\/strong> parenting can have a profoundly positive effect on children. Children who were brought up with this style of parenting feel nurtured, loved, and guided in the right direction. They will often become more successful in terms of educational achievements and careers.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Authoritarian <\/strong>parenting can have a somewhat negative impact on children. Children are more likely to become resentful towards their parents, as they\u2019re constantly being punished instead of guided to make better decisions. Children with authoritarian parents may feel unloved and unheard as the parents usually spend little time bonding with their children.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Permissive <\/strong>parents can make their kids feel like they have no proper guidance or support. Children of permissive parents may struggle in terms of education and careers as a direct consequence of no real parental support. Bad habits may be formed relating to eating habits and <a id=\"readmore\" href=\"https:\/\/findmykids.org\/blog\/en\/personal-hygiene-for-kids\">hygiene<\/a>, meaning the child is at higher risk of becoming unwell.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Neglectful <\/strong>parenting can leave children feeling completely unguided, unheard, and unloved. The long-term effect of this parenting style can be devastating. Children with neglectful parents may have huge confidence issues, become unhappy or even depressed, and may perform poorly in terms of their education and career.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>These distinct parenting styles can significantly shape a child&#8217;s upbringing and future outlook. It&#8217;s essential to explore the characteristics and effects of these different parenting styles to find the best fit for your family.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"AttachmentTheory\">Attachment Theory<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_5022\" style=\"width: 759px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5022\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5022\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/mom-walking-with-baby.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"749\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/mom-walking-with-baby.jpg 749w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/mom-walking-with-baby-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/mom-walking-with-baby-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/mom-walking-with-baby-392x262.jpg 392w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 749px) 100vw, 749px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-5022\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Prostock-studio\/Shutterstock.com<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The <a id=\"readmore\" href=\"https:\/\/findmykids.org\/blog\/en\/attachment-stages-in-children\">Attachment Theory<\/a> was first established by UK-based psychologist, John Bowlby. Bowlby carried out an extensive range of studies in the \u201850s and \u201880s.<\/p>\n<p>Bowlby\u2019s stated how children feel scared and alone when separated from their primary caregivers\u2014their parents. As babies are vulnerable and can\u2019t defend themselves, they tend to cry for help when they\u2019re separated from their parents\u2014an instinctive behavior.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In simple terms, Bowlby\u2019s theory suggests that in a child\u2019s early years (0\u20133 years), the level of attachment a child develops with their parents directly affects their future relationships\u2014both with their parents and everyone else. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Attachment parenting is a crucial part of child development and if done incorrectly, can lead to mental health issues, self-esteem issues, and many other issues later on. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"AttachmentTheoryInAdolescence\">Attachment Theory In Adolescence<\/h3>\n<p>The Attachment theory\u2014although it is mainly related to a child\u2019s early years\u2014states that the solidity of a child-to-parent bond can have a significant impact on how a child acts during their teenage years.<\/p>\n<p><a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC2724162\/\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><u>Research<\/u><\/a> has shown a significant correlation between the strength of the attachment a child has to their parents and how the child grows through adolescence.<\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight_PastelGreen\">Children with stronger attachments with their parents were less likely to partake in behaviors such as underage drinking, drug use, and sexual activity.<\/p>\n<p>Teenage girls who have stronger bonds with their parents directly correlate with lower teenage pregnancy rates, fewer body-image issues, and lower rates of eating disorders.<\/p>\n<p>Teenagers who were securely attached to their parents were also less likely to develop mental health issues, such as depression and anxiety.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"OtherParentingStyles\">Other Parenting Styles<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_5019\" style=\"width: 760px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5019\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5019\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/familytime.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/familytime.jpg 750w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/familytime-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/familytime-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/familytime-392x261.jpg 392w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-5019\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Prostock-studio\/Shutterstock.com<\/p><\/div>\n<p>As well as the major four parenting styles that we\u2019ve already outlined previously, there are many other styles that parents can employ when bringing up their children.<\/p>\n<p>Other styles include &#8216;Unconditional Parenting&#8217;, &#8216;Holistic Parenting&#8217;, and &#8216;Nurturant Parenting&#8217;:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Unconditional parenting<\/strong> is characterized by its approach to accepting the child\u2019s actions and behaviors no matter what\u2014allowing them to be themselves. This reinforces the child\u2019s individuality and enables them to grow up feeling accepted for who they are, no matter how they act.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Holistic parenting <\/strong>is where parents encourage their children to explore their individual beliefs. This involves not enforcing any religious views on your child. Also, instead of setting strict rules, you should instead lead by example.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Nurturant parenting <\/strong>(also known as &#8216;Slow Parenting&#8217;) is characterized by its steady approach. Instead of rushing to form relationships and setting rules, this style of parenting requires parents to take more time to form meaningful connections with their children. The nurturant parenting style reinforces the fact that life is a journey, where children can constantly learn and progress.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>When deciding on the parenting style you wish to adopt, it\u2019s wise to consider the impact it will have on your children in later life. Although it\u2019s important to choose a style that suits you, you must ensure that your child can form secure attachments to you, which will ultimately set them up for a positive and prosperous future.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"WhichParentingStyle\">What is the Best Parenting Style?<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_5018\" style=\"width: 759px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5018\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5018\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/happy-child.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"749\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/happy-child.jpg 749w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/happy-child-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/happy-child-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/09\/happy-child-392x262.jpg 392w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 749px) 100vw, 749px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-5018\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Prostock-studio\/Shutterstock.com<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The most effective parenting style, as stated by developmental psychologist Diana Baumrind herself, is the Authoritative style.<\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight_PastelGreen\">Of all the different parenting styles, authoritative parenting has proven to have the most positive effect on children. It accounts for 93% of children with positive behavior, according to the <a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4559268\/\"\" rel=\"nofollow\">National Institutes of Health.\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n<p>The combination of guidance, support, and rules which are enforced, are all strong elements that enable a child to grow into the greatest version of themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Children who have been brought up by authoritative parents are more likely to achieve academic success, as well as success in their careers.<\/p>\n<p>With authoritative parenting, the child feels nurtured and loved, which will help with their confidence and self-esteem as they grow and develop. Also, authoritative parenting emphasizes a balanced approach, combining warmth and clear boundaries.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"ParentingStyles\">How to Make Every Parenting Style Even More Effective?<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4811\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"750\" height=\"508\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-1.png 863w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-1-150x102.png 150w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-1-300x203.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-1-768x520.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-1-808x547.png 808w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-1-392x265.png 392w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Parenting comes with its own set of challenges, and each parent has their unique parenting style. As a parent, it is essential to find a balance that suits your family&#8217;s needs and effectively nurtures your child&#8217;s growth and development.<\/p>\n<p>Although each parenting style is unique, there are ways to make every parenting style more effective.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Understanding Your Child.<\/strong> Every child is unique, and having a solid understanding of their personality can aid you in knowing how to communicate with them, how to best set limits, and how they should be rewarded. Also, take time to understand yourself. One parenting style might not jive well with your personality, but one other (or a blend of others) might be the perfect match.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Communicate.<\/strong> A positive and open conversation can help even the firmest or most gentle parenting style, connect and understand their child better.<\/li>\n<li>Consistency. Regardless of your parenting style and parenting practices, consistent discipline, and expectations are necessary. Be consistent in setting limits and consequences for your children&#8217;s actions.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Lead by Example.<\/strong> Children often mimic what they observe in their parents, so it is important to embody the qualities that you would like your child to have.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Be Flexible.<\/strong> Listen to your children&#8217;s opinions and, rather than being strict authoritarian parents, consider using positive discipline strategies to quell child behavior problems instead.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rely on Tools.<\/strong> While the tips above will help you become a more effective parent, sometimes, it just makes sense to lean on technology a bit. The <a href=\"https:\/\/findmykids.onelink.me\/xY6s?pid=content_team&amp;c=en&amp;af_channel=blog&amp;af_adset=article&amp;af_ad=parenting-styles&amp;af_sub1=text\">Findmykids app<\/a> can help you become a more effective parent in all kinds of different ways.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p class=\"highlight_PastelBlue\">The <a href=\"https:\/\/findmykids.onelink.me\/xY6s?pid=content_team&amp;c=en&amp;af_channel=blog&amp;af_adset=article&amp;af_ad=parenting-styles&amp;af_sub1=cta\">Findmykids app<\/a> can be seamlessly integrated into any parenting style, whether you&#8217;re an authoritarian parent or a bit more laid back. With features like GPS tracking and geofencing, you&#8217;ll always know where your child is and be able to set boundaries as needed.<\/p>\n<p>Plus, the app allows for seamless communication between parents and children, ensuring that everyone stays connected and informed. By using the Findmykids app, you can have peace of mind and be a better parent, no matter how you choose to raise your child.<\/p>\n<h2>Parenting Styles: The Bottom Line<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4626\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-1.jpg 750w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-1-392x261.jpg 392w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As you can see, there is a huge range of different parenting styles\u2014all of which have their pros and cons.<\/p>\n<p>Parenting styles are something you may want to seriously consider researching further to ensure your child is brought up in the best way possible.<\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight_PastelGreen\">It&#8217;s worth noting how each style can impact your child, especially in terms of how they bond with you in their early years. The attachments your child forms during this period can have a significant effect on their mental health in adolescence and later life.<\/p>\n<p>Not all styles will suit your preferences. You may wish to be more lenient or set more rules. Choosing a style can be difficult, and there\u2019s no such thing as a \u00abone size fits all\u00bb approach.<\/p>\n<p>You may choose to use elements from all different styles of parenting, depending on the age of your child or the situations you\u2019re faced with.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to learn more about different parenting styles, including Helicopter Parenting,\u00a0then check out <a href=\"https:\/\/findmykids.org\/blog\/en\/helicopter-parenting\"><u>this awesome blog<\/u><\/a> we\u2019ve just posted for you.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4480\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting.jpg 750w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn-blog.findmykids.org\/2019\/08\/parenting-392x261.jpg 392w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>FAQ<\/h2>\n<h3>What is the most common parenting style?<\/h3>\n<p>The most common parenting style is authoritative. This parenting style is characterized by high responsiveness and high expectations. Authoritative parents are attentive, supportive, and set clear boundaries for their children\u2014they give their children the freedom to make their own decisions but are invested in supporting healthy growth as well.<\/p>\n<h3>Can you mix parenting styles?<\/h3>\n<p>Yes, it is possible and even common for parents to mix different parenting styles, but it is important to understand that mixing parenting styles can be confusing for the child and can make it difficult for them to understand what is expected of them. It is recommended that parents prioritize their child&#8217;s needs and use a consistent approach when it comes to discipline and decision-making.<\/p>\n<h3>How can I determine my parenting style?<\/h3>\n<p>Ask yourself the following questions: do you set clear and consistent boundaries? Are you attentive and supportive of your child&#8217;s needs? How do you discipline your child? Once you have answers to these questions, you might be able to identify a particular parenting style that suits you.<\/p>\n<h3>What are some common mistakes parents make when it comes to parenting styles?<\/h3>\n<p>One common mistake that parents make is being too permissive, which can make it difficult for children to understand boundaries and limits. On the other hand, being too authoritarian can make children fearful and rebellious. Another mistake that parents make is not recognizing their child&#8217;s individual needs and temperament, so parents should be responsive to their child&#8217;s unique needs and adapt their parenting style accordingly.<\/p>\n<h2>References:<\/h2>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left; width: 100%;\">\n<li>The Power of Positive Parenting | Patient and Family Education | UC Davis Children Hospital: <a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/health.ucdavis.edu\/children\/patient-education\/Positive-Parenting\"\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/health.ucdavis.edu\/children\/patient-education\/Positive-Parenting<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Parenting Styles \u2013 Culture and Psychology: <a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/open.maricopa.edu\/culturepsychology\/chapter\/parenting-styles\/\"\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/open.maricopa.edu\/culturepsychology\/chapter\/parenting-styles\/<\/a><\/li>\n<li>How understanding your child\u2019s unique nature can make you a more effective parent &#8211; VCU News &#8211; Virginia Commonwealth University: <a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/news.vcu.edu\/article\/2021\/09\/how-understanding-your-childs-unique-nature-can-make-you-a-more-effective-parent\"\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/news.vcu.edu\/article\/2021\/09\/how-understanding-your-childs-unique-nature-can-make-you-a-more-effective-parent<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Understanding and Improving Your Parenting Style &#8211; Y Magazine: <a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/magazine.byu.edu\/article\/understanding-improving-parenting-style\/\"\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/magazine.byu.edu\/article\/understanding-improving-parenting-style\/<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\t\t<div class=\"wpulike wpulike-default \" ><div class=\"wp_ulike_general_class wp_ulike_is_not_liked\"><button type=\"button\"\n\t\t\t\t\taria-label=\"Like Button\"\n\t\t\t\t\tdata-ulike-id=\"5015\"\n\t\t\t\t\tdata-ulike-nonce=\"91ca916eae\"\n\t\t\t\t\tdata-ulike-type=\"likeThis\"\n\t\t\t\t\tdata-ulike-template=\"wpulike-default\"\n\t\t\t\t\tdata-ulike-display-likers=\"0\"\n\t\t\t\t\tdata-ulike-disable-pophover=\"0\"\n\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"wp_ulike_btn wp_ulike_put_image wp_likethis_5015\"><\/button><span class=\"count-box\">2<\/span>\t\t\t<\/div><\/div>\n\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No one approach to parenting suits everyone. 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