{"id":53792,"date":"2025-07-31T17:05:51","date_gmt":"2025-07-31T14:05:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/findmykids.org\/blog\/?p=53792"},"modified":"2026-03-16T16:44:52","modified_gmt":"2026-03-16T13:44:52","slug":"dangerous-challenges-what-parents-should-know","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/findmykids.org\/blog\/en\/dangerous-challenges-what-parents-should-know","title":{"rendered":"Dangerous Challenges: What Parents Should Know"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Some online challenges, like train surfing or\u00a0risky selfies, can pose serious threats to\u00a0a\u00a0child\u2019s life. Knowing what these challenges look like and how they spread can help you spot red flags early.<\/p>\n<h2>What Are These Challenges and Why Do\u00a0Kids Try Them?<\/h2>\n<p>Dangerous challenges often circulate through social media or\u00a0messaging apps. Kids might be\u00a0encouraged to\u00a0take part in\u00a0things like choking games, jumping from rooftops, consuming harmful substances, or\u00a0riding on\u00a0the outside of\u00a0moving vehicles.<\/p>\n<p>These challenges show up\u00a0on\u00a0TikTok, YouTube, Telegram, Discord and also spread through friends, classmates, and influencers.<\/p>\n<p>Younger kids might try them out of\u00a0curiosity, wanting to\u00a0act like older peers or\u00a0get attention. They don\u2019t yet have a\u00a0clear sense of\u00a0risk or\u00a0strong internal brakes to\u00a0say\u00a0no.<\/p>\n<p>Teens may join in\u00a0because of\u00a0peer pressure, a\u00a0desire to\u00a0stand out, lack of\u00a0attention, or\u00a0just wanting to\u00a0experiment. Their ability to\u00a0foresee consequences is\u00a0still developing and the need to\u00a0belong can be\u00a0especially intense.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Common dangerous challenges include:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left; width: 100%;\">\n<li>Choking or\u00a0blackout games<\/li>\n<li>Train surfing (riding on\u00a0the outside of\u00a0vehicles)<\/li>\n<li>Risky rooftop selfies or\u00a0stunts<\/li>\n<li>Self-harm flash mobs<\/li>\n<li>Drinking contests or\u00a0dares<\/li>\n<li>So-called \u201cdeath groups\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Extreme or\u00a0\u201ctrash\u201d livestreams<\/li>\n<li>Dares involving pain, fear, or\u00a0humiliation for clout<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Signs Your Child May Be\u00a0at\u00a0Risk<\/h2>\n<p>Kids don\u2019t always say they\u2019re involved, but their behavior might show\u00a0it. Watch for:<\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left; width: 100%;\">\n<li>Becoming unusually secretive or\u00a0withdrawn<\/li>\n<li>Showing interest in\u00a0disturbing or\u00a0dark topics<\/li>\n<li>Avoiding conversations, especially about friends or\u00a0the internet<\/li>\n<li>Unexplained marks or\u00a0injuries (bruises, cuts)<\/li>\n<li>Sudden mood shifts or\u00a0changes in\u00a0behavior or\u00a0friend groups<\/li>\n<li>Rewatching the same videos over and over<\/li>\n<li>Using odd or\u00a0coded language<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How to\u00a0Talk With Your Child About Dangerous Challenges<\/h2>\n<p>Don\u2019t panic. Don\u2019t blame. And definitely don\u2019t lecture. Try something like: \u201cHave you seen any weird or\u00a0scary videos online lately? What do\u00a0you think about them?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to\u00a0listen without judgment. If\u00a0trust is\u00a0already fragile, a\u00a0family therapist may help. What matters most is\u00a0that your child knows: they won\u2019t get in\u00a0trouble\u2014you\u2019ll help them through\u00a0it.<\/p>\n<h2>How to\u00a0Protect Your Child<\/h2>\n<p>Even if\u00a0you don\u2019t notice any warning signs, building trust and a\u00a0safe digital environment ahead of\u00a0time makes a\u00a0big difference. Monitoring your child\u2019s online life isn\u2019t about total control; it\u2019s about honest, ongoing connection.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s what you can\u00a0do:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left; width: 100%;\">\n<li>Ask about what they\u2019re watching\u2014talk about videos, creators, trends, and watch together when you can.<\/li>\n<li>Teach them to\u00a0think critically about what they see online.<\/li>\n<li>Set a\u00a0good example with your own digital habits\u2014what you post, how you respond, who you support.<\/li>\n<li>Follow or\u00a0friend your child on\u00a0social media\u2014not to\u00a0spy, but to\u00a0stay connected.<\/li>\n<li>Use parental controls, but talk openly with your child about\u00a0it.<\/li>\n<li>Discuss app choices before they\u2019re downloaded.<\/li>\n<li>Set clear, fair family rules for screen time and internet use.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>It\u2019s also important to\u00a0know: strict surveillance or\u00a0harsh rules can damage trust.<\/p>\n<h2>What Not to\u00a0Do<\/h2>\n<p>Avoid actions that may push your child further away:<\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left; width: 100%;\">\n<li>Don\u2019t sneak into their accounts or\u00a0read their private messages. Open involvement works better than spying.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t use hidden monitoring apps. They damage trust and don\u2019t teach independence.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t rely on\u00a0parental controls alone. They only help when paired with honest conversations.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t mock or\u00a0blame your child if\u00a0they talk about troubling content.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t threaten punishment for seeing harmful videos; it\u2019ll just make them hide things.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t shift all responsibility to\u00a0schools or\u00a0social platforms. Your involvement matters most.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>We\u00a0can\u2019t control everything around our kids. But we\u00a0can be\u00a0present. Trust, attention, and calm, open conversations are what truly protect children.<\/p>\n<h2>References:<\/h2>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left; width: 100%;\">\n<li><a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/vpnoverview.com\/internet-safety\/kids-online\/internet-challenges-dangers\/\"\" rel=\"nofollow\">The Dangers of\u00a0Internet Challenges in\u00a02025<\/a>: A\u00a0Guide for Parents, VPNOverview.com, Internet Privacy Initiative, 2025<\/li>\n<li><a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healthychildren.org\/English\/family-life\/Media\/Pages\/Dangerous-Internet-Challenges.aspx\"\" rel=\"nofollow\">Dangerous Internet Challenges<\/a>, American Academy of\u00a0Pediatrics, 2024<\/li>\n<li><a  rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/saferinternet.org.uk\/guide-and-resource\/online-challenges-advice-for-parents\"\" rel=\"nofollow\">Online Challenges\u00a0\u2014 Advice for Parents<\/a>, Safer Internet UK, 2023<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\t\t<div class=\"wpulike wpulike-default \" ><div class=\"wp_ulike_general_class wp_ulike_is_not_liked\"><button type=\"button\"\n\t\t\t\t\taria-label=\"Like Button\"\n\t\t\t\t\tdata-ulike-id=\"53792\"\n\t\t\t\t\tdata-ulike-nonce=\"9010bed76d\"\n\t\t\t\t\tdata-ulike-type=\"likeThis\"\n\t\t\t\t\tdata-ulike-template=\"wpulike-default\"\n\t\t\t\t\tdata-ulike-display-likers=\"0\"\n\t\t\t\t\tdata-ulike-disable-pophover=\"0\"\n\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"wp_ulike_btn wp_ulike_put_image wp_likethis_53792\"><\/button><\/div><\/div>\n\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some online challenges, like train surfing or\u00a0risky selfies, can pose serious threats to\u00a0a\u00a0child\u2019s life. 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